Most common signs of cheating
8 most common signs your partner is cheating
If you’ve spent any time on the adult dating scene or even if you’ve been married for any length of time you’ve probably felt that insecure feeling at one time or another. That feeling that you may be getting cheated on. You may have noticed some odd or changed behavior, increased evasiveness, or more and more absence of your mate from home. It’s not a good feeling and can leave many feeling paranoid, fearful, or stressed. But even worse it can make a person feel stupid, unvalued, cheap, or used. All of these can eat away at the psyche and chip away at self-esteem.
The solution? Find out once and for all if you are being cheated on. If you’re thinking to yourself, “Well, how do I do that?”, relax. I’m going to help you out today. We’re going to go through a list of 8 of the most common signs of cheating in married and unmarried relationships.
So tell us almighty relationship guru, what are the obvious and common signs of cheating?
Let’s start with an obvious one. LIttle or no interest in the bedroom. Waning sexual interest happens at times in all relationships. But with the cheater it goes to another level of disinterest because he or she no longer “needs” sex with you. They are getting their needs met elsewhere.
Increasing frequency of the phrase. “I’ve gotta take this call” followed by your mate stepping out of the room for a private conversation. When you ask him about it he always gives you a name (like one of his buddies) that makes you wonder why he needed so much privacy.
The appearance of a second phone that you rarely see but know exists. It’s usually reported to be a work phone and often is, but this is also a perfect cover for a second personal phone kept strictly for “extra-relationship” communications.
A true tethering of your significant other to his or her phone while at home. I mean we all spend a lot of time on our phones these days, but your partner has kicked it up a notch and can’t even make it through a half hour show with you at night without constantly going to the phone.
Strange credit charges on the credit card statement to restaurants and other entertainment venues you know you have not been to with him. He will most likely say these are business expenses that will be reimbursed at some future date.
Occasionally you catch a strange scent on him. Like an unfamiliar perfume. It’s often masked by some other strong smell such as his own cologne, cigarette smoke, or the few drinks he had after work so you’re never quite sure, but it’s there nonetheless.
Then there is the classic “I’ve got to work late again honey”. This happens to nearly every working adult at some point but your spouse is up to 2, 3, or 4 times a week on a regular basis. Seems like he may not owe the company that much.
Then there is this one which a friend recently shared with me as the final straw in her relationship. He kept coming to her with new and increasingly kinky requests or moves in the bedroom… as if he had just learned them recently somewhere else and couldn’t resist bringing them home!
Well, there you have it folks. My top 8 most common signs of cheating. If you’re seeing 5 of the 8 of these you have most likely got a problem that warrants further investigation.